A személyes gondoskodás szépségei

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2021.04.15. 18:30

Gondoskodás

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Egy Alzheimer-kórral élőről való személyes gondoskodás elkerülhetetlenül jár sok szomorúsággal és lemondással. Nem könnyű végignézni, ahogy családtagunk viselkedése és gondolkodása megváltozik és veszít a képességeiből. Ezek az élmények a beteg és hozzátartozó számára is nehéz érzelmekkel, frusztrációval, szomorúsággal, zavarodottsággal járhatnak. A betegség előrehaladtával a személyes gondoskodás is sok stresszel, fáradtsággal és gyakran anyagi terhekkel is jár.

Sokak számára azonban nem csupán kihívásokból áll az Alzheimer-kórral való együttélés. A beteg hozzátartozóról való törődés igen mély, közeli kapcsolatot hozhat létre, ahol egyre nagyobb helyet kap az intimitás, megbocsátás és a szeretetteljes emlékek.

Megváltozhat az élethez való hozzáállásunk is – a személyes gondoskodást nyújtók egy része arról számol be, hogy saját életüket is jobban kezdik értékelni és megváltoznak a prioritásaik. Az egykor fontosnak tűnő, mindennapos apróságok helyét az igazán lényeges dolgok veszik át.

A személyes gondoskodás emellett célokat is ad, hiszen úgy érezhetjük, Alzheimer-kórral élő szerettünknek szüksége van ránk és értékeli munkánkat. Minden egyes nap értelemmel bíró és fontos dolgokat teszünk meg értük, még akkor is, ha már esetleg nem tudják szóban kifejezni hálájukat.

A gondoskodás során mi magunk is új készségeket sajátítunk el, újfajta megküzdési módokat alakítunk ki, fejlődik problémamegoldó képességünk is és joggal lehetünk büszkék magunkra. Ha sikerül eljutnunk sorstárs hozzátartozói csoportba, akkor még a társas hálózatuk is bővülhet.

Nem csak mi magunk, hanem a család legfiatalabb tagjai is sokat tanulhatnak a személyes gondoskodásból. A gyerekek számára elengedhetetlen, hogy pozitív példát lássanak az odaforduló, szeretetteljes, elfogadó gondoskodásra – a demenciával való együttélésben épp ezeket az értékeket sajátíthatják el. A stressz, kihívások és szomorúság mellett a legjobbat hozhatja ki belőlünk, ha a legkisebb családtagok példaképeivé válhatunk.

 

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