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Kérdezz-felelek: Sylvia

Szemlézte: Pöltz Ágnes

2019.05.10. 08:00

Küzdelem a demenciával

forrás: Alzheimers Society

Mi változott leginkább a diagnózis óta?

Először elvesztettem a magabiztosságomat, de ma már úgy érzem, nem adom olyan könnyen magam. Valaha ápolónő voltam, úgyhogy nehezem viselem, ha nem nálam van a kontroll.
A közösségben, ahol élek, utcai igehirdetőként dolgozom már vagy tíz éve. A helyi gyülekezetek tagjainak tartok tréningeket arról, hogy miként tudnak segíteni azoknak az embereknek, akik éjjel kint vannak az utcán. Régebben gyakrabban csináltam, de manapság sok testi bajom is akad a demencia mellett.

Mit vinne magával egy lakatlan szigetre?

Ella Fitzgerald CD-t. Nagyon szeretem, ahogy énekel, igazi áldás ő az életemben.

Hogyan segített Önnek a brit Alzheimer Társaság?

Hihetetlen nagy segítséget nyújtottak már a kezdetektől fogva azzal, hogy meghallgattak, támogattak és olyan dolgokat mutattak, amikben aktívan részt tudok venni. A diagnózisom után szinte azonnal ott álltak mellettem.

Ha visszamehetne az időben, hova menne?

Az 1950-es évekbe, ahol reményeim szerint sok mindent jobban tudnék csinálni. Az egyik emlékem a nagymamámról és a második férjről szól. Kevés dolgot bántam meg életemben, de visszatekintve úgy gondolom, nem tiszteltem őket eléggé. Nem arról van szó, hogy ne szerettem volna őket – egyszerűen csak nagyon lefoglalt a saját életem.

Mi a legféltettebb kincse?

A hitem. Ez mindent áthat az életemben – Isten nélkül semmi sem lennék.

Iratkozzon fel hírlevelünkre!

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